Sophisticated conversation and closing on a first meeting (advanced)
Finding common interests and having a deep chat with someone you meet for the first time at an industry event or networking, naturally exchanging contact information and ending the conversation politely.
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May I join you?
When naturally joining a standing group or table. It's casual yet polite, making it easy to blend into unfamiliar settings.
It's great to finally meet you in person.
A sophisticated expression used when meeting someone for the first time whom you've only known through email or phone. It makes the other person feel special.
How did you get here today?
Let's definitely keep in touch.
A bridging expression that leads to exchanging business cards or contact information. Adding definitely makes it sound sincere rather than just polite.
Feel free to email me.
shoot me an email = send me an email (casual). Adding Feel free to suggests it's a low-pressure invitation.
I won't keep you, it was really nice to meet you.
A sophisticated closing that respects the other person's time. The key is the consideration of 'not holding them back'.
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Sophisticated closing formula: bridge (We should stay in touch) → specific action (Feel free to shoot me an email) → considerate closing (I won't keep you).
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If you use these three steps when parting, you'll be remembered as someone they'd like to see again.
- stay in touch — Keep in touch and stay connected.
- shoot someone an email — (Casually) send an email.
- put a face to the name — Seeing someone in person for the first time whom you only knew by name.
- pleasure — Joy, pleasure